Law of Attraction: The Use and Meaning of Signs from the Universe
Ever since I began studying and applying the Law of Attraction, I have always received signs from the Universe. Some are signs of encouragement or inspiration and some are signs to act upon.
Some ask if it is a lack of faith in the Universe if you ask for a sign of encouragement. The answer really depends on how you look at it, but from my point of view I believe signs are here to give us encouragement just like you would give your child praise and encouragement. Encouragement in the form of signs serves as a catalyst to do more and be more.
Signs of encouragement or inspiration send your heart to new heights: You wonder how something is going to work out and you receive a clear sign from the Universe that it will. When I first began practicing the Law of Attraction, I was a professional costume designer. I was unsure of how I was going to make money at it, but I knew at the time that this was what I wanted to do. I kept my focus on costume designing and would look through magazines and sketch out costumes that I would love to make.
I started to specialize in the old time look of Judy Garland and Shirley Temple. I devised a plan to make children’s costumes that were old fashioned; glorious fairy costumes, skunks, Little Rascals, and of course Shirley Temple. I wasn’t sure what would sell well and I asked the Universe for a sign. I had to make at least twenty copies of one costume to sell at an industry show. I didn’t receive what anyone would call a blatant sign telling me what to do. I stepped back and just released it into the Universe and thanked the Universe for the sign.
One day as I was picking up fabrics, I parked next to a car with the license plate that read, ‘Shrlyrcks.’ “Wow!” I thought to myself, “I think that is my sign!” I was so excited that this was leading me in the direction I needed to go. I went into the fabric store and the fabric needed for a Shirley Temple costume was 75% off, today only! Boom! Boom! Two signs in a row! These kinds of signs take your heart to a new level. You feel so taken care of when you have blatant signs. So I designed the costumes and sold every last one of them at the show and took many orders home with me. Just remember to expect the signs and thank the Universe in advance for the signs and the subsequent manifestation of what you have been attaining.
You can also have the kind of sign from the Universe that says, “Here’s your sign! It’s your time for your light to shine! Act on it!” This kind of sign can be unnerving if you aren’t used to ‘acting upon’ something, but it’s best if you do because the Universe lined up the situations and people for this moment for you to help attain the life and wants that you desire.
My husband, Lee, has had many of these in his life time. One of the early signs was when he was a young man wanting to go to sea. He would sit at the union hall for weeks on end in hopes of catching a ship. Many of the old sailors laughed up their sleeves at this young buck waiting to catch a ship. Seniority always got the ships and the newbies usually didn’t. It was closing time in the union hall and everyone was leaving. It wasn’t quite time to leave but it was five minutes away from the door being locked. Lee said it just hit him. He had to go to the restroom and couldn’t wait. Everyone left as Lee went to the restroom before leaving. Then something in Lee whispered, “Stay right here until the very end!” Lee listened to the Universe and one minute before closing a ship came in needing crew. The man at the counter called for seniority and no one was there but Lee. The same Universal voice whispered, “Get your bags and walk up to the counter NOW!” Lee acted and he caught the ship. It was a miracle that it happened but Lee focused on his intention and acted upon the sign from the Universe. Lee listened and was aware and acted upon his sign of going to the restroom before leaving.
These are just a few examples of how signs can come to you. Be aware but not impatient when wanting a sign. Ask and then let it go and just be prepared for the moment because it will come.
If you wonder if the Universe gave you sign, this is a true moment that if you had to ask, it is a sign.
Can you ask the Universe for a sign and get one instantly? You sure can. If you feel like you want inspiration or encouragement, let the Universe know that you are going to pick up a book and ask for a sign in the passage. It doesn’t matter what book. Close your eyes, ask your question, or ask for a sign, and visualize that your physical is stepping aside for a moment while your higher self or Core Being as we call it, opens the book to the sign that is for you. Point to a spot and read. You will find that there will be words that are just for you via the Universe.
Follow your signs and the Law of Attraction and you will have the life you want in no time.
May 25, 2008 at 2:25 am
Oh my gosh! What was written here brought tears to my eyes.
I believe in signs. More recently in my life I have been receiving a lot. I mean A LOT. But my friends are very skeptical of signs calling everything a coincidence.
I have a great story about love. The signs over the past year and a half to present day point to a special person. Every time I try to let go of him, I receive a sign to not give up.
There was a point that I thought truly that our time was over, or at least that I was not supposed to wait for him any longer. So I asked for signs to tell me what I was supposed to do – wait or move on.
After a day of truly receiving so many strong signs pointing me to him, I explained what happened to one of my friends who doesnt believe in signs. After I recounted the days events, she said that though normally she doesnt believe, she believes that these were signs…that she believes what happened were signs for me not to give up. But instead to hold on.
To further make me feel better about the signs I was receiving, I went online to see what there was about signs and I came across this site. It was just what I needed…to know that signs do exist and what I have been getting has a meaning, a purpose. It gave me hope and the strength to know that I am doing the right thing.
thank you.
May 25, 2008 at 12:01 pm
We’re so glad that you found the site. There are no coincidences and we are glad that the Universe gave you another sign through this article! 🙂
June 1, 2008 at 5:09 am
I was hoping it was ok to ask for a sign….. I was trying the “book” idea…and I must have looked @ 6 diffrent pages and still NO sign…(let me back up here….I have my heart set on a certain house in south carolina)….well I sat back down at the computer to reread …maybe I missed somthing….as soon as I said “Universe” outloud (I was going to ask again for a sign)….someone from South Carolina had instant messaged me. So a word to everyone….sometimes the signs aren’t what you want….but they ARE there.
June 1, 2008 at 10:01 am
YAY! You got your sign! Sometimes when we are hoping so badly for a sign, it’s easy to miss the sign from the Universe. Asking directly and expecting…so glad you got your sign from the Universe.
Beth and Lee
June 8, 2008 at 1:26 am
I have several life-altering decisions to make. Too much to consider all at once. I go back and forth on what to do….I’ve been waiting for a sign…I need one…have I missed it?
June 9, 2008 at 12:25 pm
Hi Jeanette,
First of all, when yo have many decisions to make at once keep your eyes on the solutions and not on the decisions so what would be a perfect solution to your life decisions? What do you want to accomplish through the decisions. It’s what you want to accomplish, the end result, that will help you with the actual decisions. If you missed a sign and you expect another, it will come. If you are ‘waiting’ for a sign, the focus is on the waiting feelings so…ask for a sign and then let it go to the Universe and expect and thank the Universe for the coming sign. Live as if the sign has happened and it will come. Let us know what happens.
Beth and Lee:)
June 18, 2008 at 11:36 pm
Like Guilia, someone special has come into my life and I keep receiving signs related to them. Because she and I live in two different cities, I often find myself thinking it might be too hard build the relationship. But the universe keeps sending me signs to hold on!
Every time I feel a sense of doubt, something pop us that reminds me of her. I see someone with red hair (her hair color), someone wearing the type of clothing she would be wearing, or something that reminds me of her favorite baseball team (Yankees).
It’s strange but at the same time comforting because I see very specific signs 🙂
Thanks for the great article!
June 18, 2008 at 11:39 pm
Sorry my spelling is a bit off 🙂
June 24, 2008 at 4:55 am
I am so glad others are talking about this because of course you start to think you are imagining things are going crazy!
Several years ago I met my now husband. He watched a local tv show all the time and I started watching because he watched it all the time. There was a guy on there I would jokingly call “my boyfriend” (he was cute!). A few years later I actually met the guy through my job and we became friends. I never imagined I would meet him, let a lone be friends with him. As of recent, I am going through a divorce and so is he. We both got married the same year and will be divorced the same year. And some of the same things happen to me as you all mention above. I try to write it off as coincidence and the signs come stronger. I sent him a plaque once as a gift with a scripture on it. Weeks later, I got the same scripture as a text message from someone else. I will open a book and his name will be there. I will turn on the TV and he is on. He autographed something for me years back and signed it “my girl”. I could go on forever with examples. It all happened so weird seeing how I wouldn’t know this guy if it weren’t for my soon to be ex, it has me really wondering what it all means.
June 27, 2008 at 8:13 am
Hello,
I have been asking for specific signs indicating that my relationship with my loved one (a specific person) is not over. And I get the signs every day. Is this valid?
I ask to see a set of numbers and I see them everyday on license plates just in that order. Please validate!!
June 27, 2008 at 11:43 am
Do you think there signs? If you ask yourself if they are signs from the Universe… they usually are.
June 28, 2008 at 4:19 am
I have been asking for signs from the universe regarding a very special woman who I thought I had lost for sure, who I had actually given up on. The sign that came to me was in the form of a dream that was so powerful I will never forget it. In this dream we were part of a wonderful happy family and we were so joyous and dancing and singing and holding each other in a beautiful mountain setting. The pure feeling of joy was so overwhelmingly strong when I woke up I had to check and see if I was still alive and I am fighting back tears right now just thinking about it. She is back in my life now and we are becoming closer. I am ever grateful!
July 21, 2008 at 9:25 am
I have always believed that things happen for a reason..and if you pay close enough attention, the signs are really there, but lately I have been questioning that. It took me a long time to come to terms with and forgive the circumstances of my past relationship. I learned from this relationship (as tough as it was), and am truly grateful, otherwise I wouldn’t have learned of the things that are truly important to me, which is an honest, balanced, and meaningful relationship. My goal in life, aside from career and personal goals, is to build a family and find my soulmate. I know that I am not destined to be alone, but I do wonder…why is it, everywhere I look…someone is getting engaged, married, or having babies..and most importantly, reaching those amazing stages in life? I am happy for those people..but deep down, I wonder when my turn will come along. I try to live the best, most positive life I can. These things are EXACTLY what I want..I’ve longed for these life events my entire life, and I’m wondering why these ‘reminders’ keep happening…I am torn between wondering…is the universe teasing me? Is this a coincidence? Or are these signs supposed to be encouraging..suggesting that I could be next? I know I am ready for a relationship, I enjoy alone-time…I have a wonderful life and am grateful for how much I have accomplished.. but I’m at a point now where I’m anxious to share my life with that soul mate and build a future with. Again, is the universe teasing?? Or are these situations signs that I should take comfort in? I hate to lose hope, but these reminders are starting to take a toll on my faith and ability to focus. Any feedback is appreciated!
July 21, 2008 at 9:42 am
Hi Sarah! It can be hard to even think that a past relationship can be helpful to finding what you do want in a relationship. Learn from the past and then move forward which it sounds as if you have done just that. If you want a wonderful relationship and you are seeing all the different stages of relationship put before you, it is a sign from the Universe letting you know that it hasn’t forgotten about what you want. Do your best to not be envious of the relationships you are seeing but to live in joy knowing that the Universe is bringing you the relationship you focus on. Are you focusing on an ideal mate? Do you know what you want and don’t want in a relationship? Are you seeing that this ideal mate is already here on this earth physically and with your own focus of what you want that you are bringing him closer to you because of your focus and ‘good wonderful’ feelings to what you want? The Universe is giving you signs. See the signs in joy and continue to focus and visualize ‘in the now’ of the ideal relationship for you. It will be brought to you if you see it as you want it and release the ‘how’ to the Universe. Every time you see the stage of relationship that you want in front of you, thank the Universe for the sign that it has brought to you…with joy!
July 21, 2008 at 10:20 am
Thank you so much for your feedback! I know I am doing the right things and putting the best energy out there (with the exception of my pangs of worry and doubt at times). I have definitely defined what I want and don’t want in an ideal mate…among my readings and personal writings, I have a cork board with a paper list of 12 items tacked on it to prove it! 🙂 I so appreciate your guidance. I genuinely look forward to letting you know what happens! Thanks again!
July 25, 2008 at 2:16 am
I started a job last year and met a guy on my first day. We really didn’t work together or have anything to do with each other, but from the first second I met him I felt like he was home to me. I can’t explain it…but I missed him when I didn’t see him for a few days…and I didn’t even know him. It wasn’t a physical thing, as there were many better looking people there…it was something else, inexplicable. Anyway, we started dating a few months later…things just seemed to fall into place for that. He told me that he couldn’t explain things…that he just “had to” know me…from the second he met me. Then, a few months ago he stopped talking to me. My thought is that he got “scared”…but he has never confirmed this. From the second I knew something was wrong (even before he stopped talking to me) I have seen signs. It has been a few months now and they are still happening. Every time I go out with another man, something happens. Once, a man walked in who looked exactly like him…turned out not to be him. Another time while driving down the interstate, I asked for a sign…is he the one I’m supposed to be with? If so, please give me a sign now.” Within a minute, one car passed me, license plate ending in his initials; right behind it another one passed me, license plate began with his birthday. Is this my head playing tricks on me? I had a psychic (who is supposedly good) tell me that I’m very psychic so I’m making this stuff happen…and that he’s not coming back. I don’t know what to do. Do I continue to believe that he’s coming back? Or, ignore everything that’s happening and eventually it will frizzle out? I can’t call him…I left the ball in his court. Just thought I’d ask someone who believes in signs for an opinion…
July 27, 2008 at 3:09 am
Signs are interesting, aren’t they? Just when you think something is over, here comes a sign that could possibly mean that maybe it isn’t over. Lauren, take a look at your own inner thoughts. It sounds as if you aren’t over this relationship and you want a sign to tell you that it isn’t over so that you can continue to stay in the space of ‘maybe.’ We believe the signs that you are receiving could be from your own thoughts of not wanting this relationship to really be over. When you have someone that comes into your life that feels as if you have known them and be with them, this can be that, at another time, you may have been together and there is a recognition of a love from before.
Our suggestion is that you write down what it is that you want in a relationship, not the physical aspects but the qualities of the ideal relationship. If they involve qualities of the man that you want to be with, that is fine. But create the ideal relationship of how you want to be treated and loved. Yes, he may have been scared but it still wasn’t handled how you would have liked it to be handled. Include this in your list of ideal qualities, someone who lets you what he is thinking and feeling. As you build this creation begin to move forward from the other relationship and expect your ideal person to come about. If you get signs from the former relationship, really look deep into what they may mean. Do the signs mean that there is one out there who is ‘like’ the former relationship without the baggage or maybe you are still ‘pining’ for this other man? Find the inner meaning for you. It could be possible that this person may come into your life again but think about it. Do you really want to be in a relationship that the guy doesn’t let you know why he hasn’t called? Hmmm…
Move forward with the intention of the ideal relationship and either he’ll be back or you will receive much better through your focus and through the Universe.
Do you think you may be creating these signs? Look inside. The Universe will answer.
July 27, 2008 at 3:59 pm
Thank you for your reply. I appreciate your time and your thoughtful response. It’s true that I’m not over this man. When looking at what is “ideal” in a relationship, I have always thought and searched for someone who is a lot like myself; however, with him I’ve realized that as puzzle pieces do, we connect. My strengths are his weaknesses and vice-versa. I’m in my 30s, have dated since I was 15 years old and I’ve never felt such a thing. I don’t know whether I am making these signs happen, but the quantity and sheer magnitude of them are overwhelming. I have spent months trying to get over this man, I have dated a number of men since him, and for some reason I still have these things happen and I still miss him. I will try to look into my soul, but it seems as though each time I do that I feel like it is meant to be. The thing is, I left the ball in his court. I don’t contact him in any way, or spend time in his areas; I live my life. I will try to move forward, but I am having a strangely difficult time with it. Thank you again and best wishes to you.
-Lauren
September 29, 2008 at 11:56 pm
Hi lauren,
Just before i read this article i asked for a sign and your story is very similar to mine. I don’t know whether i am creating the signs or they are a genuine sign of what is to come. In ways I feel like i have moved on from the relationship and am interested in meeting other people. I just have this ‘belief’ that he will try to win me back even though the last time i spoke with him i told him that i was tired of having this ‘hope’ which was keeping me stuck.
I’ve never had a desire to be married or have a family until the last 4 months, during the time this relationship started to go a bit crazy,he needed space – which i gave him, he wanted me back, there were flowers and ‘i love you’, but i could sense he was withdrawing again and he said he hadn’t taken enough time to know if i was ‘The one’ or if he was ready for a commitment. I appreciate that it’s not a choice to make likely but due to the fact that it was keeping me in limbo i told him that we were not ment too be and not to contact me again.
Now i see signs regularly for a wedding (not necessarily with the previous boyfriend).Yesterday i said I will see a car with wedding ribbons on it as a sign – and 1 second later – there was the car coming around the bend! I said thanks universe!.I’ve had quite a few other signs during this relationship. On evening a week after we broke up i said to my friends ‘I have a feeling he will send me a letter’ the next day there was a letter from him asking me to get back with him.
I do believe in signs, I just don’t want to think i’m creating them. They do give me hope and now i wonder if it’s false hope. But deep down I believe it all going to be fine.
– Martina
October 7, 2008 at 2:34 pm
Hi Martina,
You should always believe in your signs. Sometimes I think I am creating them and I have to think “how could I have created that?” and then I know for sure that it was meant to be as a sign. Last week, as I was driving, I asked the universe to send me a sign about a guy that I am not sure is meant to be for me. Not one minute later, here comes his truck around a corner in a busy city and I couldn’t believe it. He waved, I waved. I thanked the universe immediately for my sign. I might have to wait a while longer for this person. But with Laws of Attraction and signs from the universe I will know I am not crazy and I am on the right track.
Also I just shut my computer down a few minutes ago and then had a strong urge to search for signs from the universe, out of nowhere. I found this website which I have never been on before and read the first message which is very similar to my situation. Thank you universe.
– Carrie
December 15, 2008 at 12:39 pm
I’m glad I found this site. My situation is much like Giulia’s and Alex’s. I met someone special back in March, but I didn’t exactly have the opportunity to get his name and number because things were happening so quickly. Plus at the time, I was in a relationship with someone. Ironically I broke up with that person 3 weeks later. I met this guy on a train to New York City where he lives and he was coming back from a vacation to France. I have gotten many signs that point to him (especially French ones, but also others that pertained to our conversation) and since the early fall, I’ve been seeing signs everyday. Today I got the best and most beautiful sign of them all. I was taking the same train to New York City (I live outside NY) and on this train I saw an advertisement that said “The chemistry was good. The setting was perfect.” This guy and myself had a really nice conversation with each other and I really liked him. Every since I met him, I have gotten a general feeling and vibe that I need to look for him. I never had a feeling like that before so it was very different to me. Also on the advertisement was a man who was holding a lady close to him on what appeared to be a train. In the photo, he looked like he was ready to kiss her. Also in the ad, was a picture next to the train photo that showed the inside of an apartment indicating they were staying together. I feel as though I will be seeing him again soon and I’m very excited. I’ve been asking for direction, but I don’t really know what I am doing. Do I just say direct me to him or is there something else I need to say? And how do I know which signs are directing me? I overhead someone mentioning a street name when they were talking on a cell phone, but I don’t know what the street name is referring to. I am happy for my signs. I guess I’m just unsure of how to react other than thanking the universe.
-Danielle
July 15, 2009 at 6:45 am
I too have been recieving signs about someone that I thought I was through with. Actually I really don’t know how I feel about him anymore, but signs have been starting to come from the Universe about him and I’m not really sure how to feel about them. First it started with songs. Then he was working on my street (he is a roofer). The last big signs were that my friend had a flat and we were driving down the street when she suddenly pulled over in front of the guys sisters house. Right as we were getting out of the car to put fix-a-flat in the tire, the sister pulled up. Nothing was said about him, but it was strange to me. Now today my car was hot and wouldn’t restart while I was at the store and his sis-in-law drove by me twice. The first time she didn’t see me, but the second time she did. Like I said before I don’t really know how I feel about him and am really wondering what these signs mean. I kind of feel like they mean that he will try and contact me soon. Like someone had mentioned in another reply, I had also told him not to contact me again, but I’ve said that before. If someone knows which way to point me I would appreciate it.
🙂
October 30, 2009 at 3:46 pm
I really cannot forget the time, when I was going thru a hard time with my partner. I did not know whether I should let go off him or continue with him.
Around the same time i came accross an article that talked about signs from the universe, and how we can use them to get a yes or no answer to tough decisions. The article spoke about asking for a clear specific sign.
With a heavy heart I asked in my mind…that if I am to continue with him show me a peacock feather (p.s. a peacock feather has a c. spl meaning to me..hence i asked for it) in next 48 hrs.
I assumed that if I dint see any peaccock feather or its depiction in the next 2 days..my mind was made up
1 day passed..i even forgot abt my wish to the universe…but the next day I was stunned when just outside my house I saw a poster full of peacock feathers (it wasnt there earlier ofcourse)
well i will say no more… 🙂
January 12, 2010 at 9:25 am
I’m getting signs but don’t know what they mean:
After more than 3 decades of wearing a watch my about 7 watches in succession broke so I stopped wearing a watch.
For the last 2+ years I’ve had an insane number of serious problems with computers, telephones and cellphones. In some cases they were brand new. All were quality products that never worked properly.
A few months ago two computers froze on a blank screen (no reason for it) within 5 days of each other and neither would allow me to reinstall the operating program.
(I have a friend who fixed the computers.)
I’ve been a travel agent for 22 years so need a computer and phone. I’m feeling burned-out but this is where I’m skilled and can earn the most money (when times get better).
People often treat my profession with contempt or suspision and they pat themselves on the back for booking trips themselves (even if they end up paying more); it’s immobilising. I’m not earning much either; currently working for myself and despite much effort and great feedback from clients, not moving forward.
These are all signs.
Now to complicate issues further I’m in an emotionally abusive marriage that I’ve wanted out for decades but always believed it would get better. I’m almost 50 and I know it won’t get better but lack of money and job prospects keeps me in the marriage although I sleep on the couch.
Last year I started acting, something I’ve always loved. For now it’s just as an extra but I love every second! My heart soars when I’m onset.
FYI: I have two great kids ages 17 and 9 whom I want to keep in their schools, neighborhood, etc. (They’re blessing from my marriage.)
So, any opinions?
January 15, 2010 at 7:48 am
You’re receiving signs either from your own thoughts and feelings or direct signs from the Universe. You are obviously not feeling happy or fulfilled in your life right now. Those thoughts, along with the feelings, create an energy that goes out into the Universe. The Universe hears your signal and answers it with ‘like’ situations and people based upon what you send out in vibration. Have you been asking and possibly envisioning a different life for yourself? If this is the case then the Universe is sending you signs. The Universe is showing you there is a communication problem within your life either between the life you want or the life you are asking for. This manifests in all of the electronic trouble you’ve encountered. Your married life has a lack of communication, you are unhappy with your job and having a hard time communicating and acting upon what you really want. The Universe sees you as putting up roadblocks, even if the roadblocks are only within the mind. And it is showing you that communication is breaking down. How you handle it is through your life. Is the Universe trying to direct you to something that you would love to be a part of? By computers and cell phones going down the Universe may be telling you “It’s time. You don’t want this kind of life.”
Here’s the other scenario. If you are focusing on the life you don’t want; the job, the marriage, and general lack of happiness, you are going to have a life that reflects exactly what you are focusing on. The watches could mean you feel as if you are running out of time. The computers and cell phones could mean miscommunication between you and your true life desires. They are breaking down in the same manner similar in ways to how you currently feel. Any intense vibrations that you focus on in your life — over and over again — will come back and reflect your present life. That is called life feedback. We have the chance to fine tune our life every day. We can change it through what we think and feel. When we begin to focus on what we love in our life, can appreciate the not so perfect job, and envision what we really want and that it comes to us with ease, you will send out that kind of vibration and your life will reflect those energies.
Hope this sheds a some light. 🙂
January 24, 2010 at 11:16 am
Excellent blog Beth and Lee!
It is so great to know that there are those out there listening to their intuition and acting on it every day, like in the original post.
It’s taken me awhile to learn to trust my own intuition, and actually “see” the signs, and I’m hoping that I can help others do the same on my website.
Thanks for sharing your experiences and for your helping others.
Kara
http://conduitofjoy.com
April 26, 2010 at 11:43 am
hi everyone.
my husband and i have been on and off for yrs. we have recently split again and i feel like it is time to move on, however, the universe seems to be telling me it is not time. i am not sure if it is just a desire i have still in me to make things work out or if they are truly signs.
since we have separated, the apt i have moved into is a mess and i am actually leaving b/c of it. my storage unit for some reason has rented my space out to someone else, every time i am in the car a song that my husband and i think of as ours comes on or a song that reminds me of him, i was at the doctor the other day and a man i had never seen before called the dr’s dog by a nickname of my husbands that i have never heard before (one given to him by his uncle that just recently passed away), i have had three different men at my work come to me and talk to me about their relationship problems (that are very similar to mine and my husbands) and i have been helping to talk them thru everything. it seems like every time i turn around there is something new that is telling me that i am going the wrong way or reminds me of my husband. three days after i moved into my horrible apt that i am now leaving..i got into a car accident. it just seems so odd to me that everything is happening the way it is.
at the same time i spoke to my husband not long ago and the day after i moved out he had his leather jacket and ipod stolen, his work went even more out of control and he almost lost his apt., i was told of a few more things that i can’t remember at the moment. then on friday i received a text from my husband that he was hanging out with friends and one of our songs came on.
i just don’t know what to make of everything. half of my heart tells me to move on and cut my losses and the other half wants to hang on and as far as i can see the universe is trying to tell both my husband and myself that we are supposed to be together.
any thoughts? another persons opinion would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you everyone 🙂
October 17, 2010 at 9:54 pm
I have had an on off relationship with a man for the past 18mths. I broke up with him because our relationship was full of bickering for the last time three months ago, yet was still hoping things would work out if they could, however did not give him any hope that I would take him back ( that is what he wants ) anyway I ( should not have ) checked his email to see what he had been up too if I could trust him and there was a link to a sex site on there, it was called hornybook. Anyway after bowing up at him and saying thats it its def over now, he told me he has not and would not join any such site while we were together we had broken up and he said he had joined porn sites ( just for looking etc before meeting me and I had no right to go into his personal things and that he would never do that ) ( on the site he joined it was a dating sex site for casual hook ups ) anyway so now I dont know if this was before me or after we broke up, and now I am hurt and dont know whether to get back together with him, whether he is telling the truth it is before me or after me or whatever ( and while I think its not ok either way, I want to know so we can either work through why he joined such a thing even if before me ) anyway so have no idea what to believe, I am driving down the road and in front of my car there is a bus with hornibrook bus lines written on it? What the, is this a sign, and if so, what, that he is lying, telling the truth, that there needs to be clarity on this issue or is it a sign to not believe him about the site?
October 25, 2010 at 10:19 am
You have to ask yourself, What does this sign mean to you? What was your reaction ‘inside?’ Did you feel as if it was a sign that he had been on this site during your relationship OR was it a different kind of feeling and thought? What was your initial thoughts and feelings?
Only you know for sure. It WAS a sign. Keep following the signs that appear to you and how you feel when you see them. It will lead you to where you want to be.