New Law of Attraction and Positive Thought Book

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It will Happen When…

It Will Happen When…

It will happen when you envision and make a mold of what you want.  When you can see it, feel it, and know that it can happen, expect it to come to you and trust how the Universe brings it to you.  Then it will happen.

It will happen when you stay strong and trust that what you desire is really there for you.  When you can let go of ‘the how’ it will happen and just see the goal of what you want and be ready to take action on the opportunities that will be presented to you. Then it will happen.

It will happen when you ‘act as if’ it has happened within your mind.  When you visualize ‘as if’ it is happening at this very moment you will be sending vibrations out that will attract back to you via the Universe.  Using the mind state that it has already happened, whatever ‘it’ is, will bring to you exactly what you envision.

It will happen when you take action within yourself to let it happen.  When you are able to step aside from the limited thoughts of it isn’t possible and begin to see that anything is possible and unlimited, then it will happen.

It will happen when you begin to realize that others’ opinions are just that…opinions from their own perspective of life; not your life.  When you begin to see that others give you opinions based on what they experience rather than on what you have experienced you will see that their opinion has no power over you unless you let their perspective color your world.  When you listen to advice and make decisions based on what is good for you then it will happen.

It will happen when you begin to see all that you are thankful for now.  When you can see and find what you are grateful for in your life right now you will emit vibrations of gratitude and more will come to you to be grateful for through the Law of Attraction.  Shift your focus to what is positive in your life.

It will happen when you go about everyday enjoying the process of getting there.  Part of creating what you want through the Law of Attraction is enjoying the ride because once you create it you will begin thinking about something else to create, anyway.  Part of the creation process is learning what you do and don’t want.  As you experience attracting and manifesting your reality enjoy the thoughts of knowing you are creating what is coming to you.  Learn and grow through the experience of creating with joy.  As you enjoy the process you will create more feelings of joy for both your present and future.

It will happen when you trust the timing of the Universe.  When you envision the life you want trust the timing.  Impatience breeds impatient vibrations.  As long as you keep your eyes on the end result release the how to the Universe.  Give the Universe the breathing room to bring the situations and people that are of like vibration to you in order to have your desire.  Let the Universe build the solid foundation for your desires. 

Then…it will happen!!!

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Law of Attraction: It Only Matters what YOU Think

Law of Attraction:  It Only Matters what YOU Think 

Each and every day we encounter an opinion or belief that is in direct contrast to what we believe. We either accept that someone has a different opinion or we become frustrated with that person’s opinion.  And when you accept someone else’s view of your life you then assume a belief about yourself that may not necessarily be true.

You see, it only matters what you think about your life.  It doesn’t matter what others think about your life unless you let what they think dictate your reality.  When you ‘buy into’ what they say about you and your dreams it becomes a part of your own belief.

So are there beliefs you carry about yourself that stemmed from someone else’s thoughts or suggestions?  When you begin to deconstruct some of the repetitive thoughts you may have about yourself and see that they don’t necessarily have to be true, you can begin to change your own repetitive mental patterns you are hanging on to.

When you feel as if you are not worth what you want then you will continue to send out a vibration that says, I can’t have what I want because I don’t deserve it and that pattern will continue. It always starts within you and how you want to perceive your life. 

So take this a step further and ask yourself what you feel about other people’s lives?  Do you believe they are making wrong decisions and would be much better off just by doing what you might think is right for them?  This can be another vibration that will keep others coming into your life who tell you what they think is best for you.  That is how the Law of Attraction works. 

It’s not just about your own thoughts that you hold about you, but the thoughts you may have about others and the world in general.  If your own thoughts and feelings reflect a negative world and you believe that people are out to hurt you then you will attract just that.  It takes not only using your own mind to decide who and what you are but treating others in the manner you want to be treated; about what you think of them as well. 

You don’t have to agree with everyone about how they see or live life but be accepting and respectful of their views even if it seems totally out of this world.  Even if you think you know better respect the other person’s ability to create even if they are not creating what you would.  And if someone wants advice always propose but never dictate a solution for them.  Whether they accept your opinion or not doesn’t really matter because it is your life you get to create…not theirs.

We are all here to help one another, not live each other’s lives by suggestion.  We can offer help and we can take help as well, just always consider if it is what you want in your life. When you’re able to get into this kind of vibration the Universe will bring you more peaceful and easy solutions to your own manifestations.  You will have more allowance from others and more help in some way for your own life as you begin to see and understand that everything you do with intention will attract back to you.  How you see your world and how you take someone else’s advice can change your direction. As you focus on what you want and consider what others have to say (as well as keep to your own visions of life) you will begin to manifest a life you truly want.

And what will bring it to you even more joyously and more permanent?   Enjoying the process of getting there.  Let it unfold before you and enjoy, enjoy, enjoy!!!  Because once you get what you envision, you will think of something else to create.    The key to a balanced life of creation is to be present in each moment of life and enjoy life as it unfolds.   Instead of just thinking of what will happen in the future or thinking about the past, start living in the now of life and enjoy the ‘unfolding’ of your life as it becomes what you focus on.

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Law of Attraction Radio Show Number 56

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Finding the Peace in Life

 

Finding the Peace in Life

It can seem so easy to just let life flow as it does no matter how uncomfortable it may feel.  You become comfortable with the uncomfortable life and believe that is the only way it can be.  What if we were to tell you that right now, this very moment, you could have peace?  That even with all that is going on in your life you can find the peace you have been looking for? 

 

This is a Truth we are about to tell you and when you can grasp the meaning of this Truth you will be able to live, starting right now, in the peace you are truly looking for.  The peace you are looking for is within you at all times and the life that you are living can be greatly affected by how you attain and maintain this peace.  It is going to take some work on your end only because you may have found that comfortably uncomfortable rut that you just don’t want to change.  Or maybe you’re just too tired to fight for what you want anymore.  You don’t have to fight.  The peace is within you.

 

But what is there to fight?  This physical life is a gift.  Maybe the eyes you see through are physical but your inner eyes observe and learn through everything that you do.  Everything (whether it is a positive or seemingly negative situation) is observed, listened to, understood and learned via those inner eyes, and the true self is always at peace. 

 

So how do you find that inner peace when things around you seem to say there is no peace for you?  Begin from a quiet space within you.  Take a moment to close your eyes and let all the problems of your life just pass by.  Don’t hang onto the thoughts that make you feel so unsettled.  Just for a moment…just for a moment. When your mind grabs on and says, I’m talking to you!!!  Don’t you need to worry about…?  tell it, “Later.  We’ll do that later.  Right now I’m showing you how to have a few moments of pure peace.”  As you realize, for those few moments, that you can enjoy peace within you will begin to have more clarity about your own life.

 

And when you begin to find a few moments of peace within something amazing begins to happen.  As you train your logical mind to ‘be still’ you are giving it something to focus on that is a totally positive practice and while it begins to learn to focus on peace your ‘true inner self’ can shine its light within; straight to the connection to the Universe.  Remember, the Universe has many names but it is all the same.  The one pure light of love that we all come from. 

 

When you make the connection through silence to the Universe you are giving your inner self and the Universe time to connect one on one and through that silent connection you will feel at peace.  This is who you really are: the peaceful, observing self that is learning and understanding through this physical life.  This self is at all times at peace and understands through the connection to the Universe.  Just by spending a few moments a day you will begin to cut through all the seemingly negative conditions of your life and see that you can truly be at peace within. 

 

When you realize and connect to that permanent connection your physical life will begin to reflect the peace you have found.  Problems begin to shrink and your perceptions change naturally and without struggle to a more positive way of life.  Problems are reduced nothing of consequence.  You begin to see the solutions and no longer put undue focus and energy on the problem. 

 

Knowing that you are always an eternal being having a physical experience makes the difference.  When you become the one that lets the inner you speak through your physical self, from that peaceful space, you begin to use your inner eyes as easily as your physical eyes.  You begin to work in concert with your body and mind and the inner self.  This is where the true peace lies in life.

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Don’t Wait on Another for your Dreams

Don’t Wait on Another for your Dreams

Have you ever blamed someone else for the life you are living?  Or expect that someone else is the one responsible for giving you the life you want?  Have you ever thought, “If I had different parents, siblings, or life conditions, I would have what I want in life.” 

Guess what…you are the only person responsible for your life.  No one else is responsible for how your life goes, or where your life goes.  You can blame others for how your life is going but they are not responsible for your reactions and your reality.  That blame is totally misdirected.  Even if someone does something rotten to you it is how you react and carry on after the fact that causes your life to change positively.  You may have had some past moments with someone or something that you think makes your life the way it is now but ultimately you have the choice as to whether it will affect your life now. 

So what does it mean to take responsibility for your own life?  You begin by letting go all the past experiences and thoughts that don’t serve you any longer.  Be responsible for letting go what you don’t need to create the life you want.  You know… the parts of your past that contain negative moments.  It’s time to let them go, and all that is connected to them. 

We’re not talking about leaving people behind who are family or friends; just the negative feelings you may be harboring toward someone or something. You take responsibility for knowing that you can have the life you want and that you, and only you, can change your life.  Those past moments won’t make up your future if you are able to understand and learn from the experiences and then ‘delete’ them from your current life.

When you are a victim in a scenario there is a point where you pick up and move on.  This doesn’t mean you’re not more cautious in the future, but what it does mean is that you learn what you want or don’t want from it and keep moving forward.  No reason to dwell.  See and envision what you want in your life. 

No one is responsible for what your life has become, it is all in your attitude.  If you say, Poor me.  Oh, that experience ruined my life then that is what you will get as you keep affirming the statement.  But if you say, I now understand what I want in my life and I want to learn what I can from that circumstance.  After that, I’ll move forward and create wonderful days for myself then that is what you will get. 

Expecting someone else to make it big for you is another way of avoiding creation of your own reality.  You’re shuffling the burden to another and your reality is never going to change by assigning it to someone else. Envision your future and be responsible in how you create it.  Your thoughts and feelings are powerful and how you decide to direct them is where your life will go.  Only you are responsible for your life.

 

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Law of Attraction YouTube Radio Show Number 55

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Taking Care of your Inner Self

Taking Care of the Inner Self

I remember the days when I was always trying to catch up, constantly feeling as if I was always chasing down my dreams and my life.   Time seemed to get away and I felt like I never had enough time to get it all done.  This was before I found the knowledge of what life really is about, and when I finally did, things began to change.

 

You see, all the rushing around and trying to get it all done was attracting more of the same; the ever vigilant Law of Attraction was in motion as it always is.  I just wasn’t aware of it yet.  When I became tired of the rat race and listening to others’ opinions of what my life should be, I went searching for the real answers.  I knew there was more to life than working at a job I didn’t want to be at, and a life full of chasing. 

 

Over many years, finding and studying what I felt was my truth, I began to see that even though we are physical beings we are also a spiritual being and it was important to pay just as much attention to the inner me as I gave physical outer me.   When we’re told to take care of ourselves we tend to focus on activities like exercise and eating right without giving a second thought to our inner selves.  We take for granted that we breathe in and breathe out without even thinking that maybe the inner self has functional requirements, too. Your physical being would not exist without that inner self that keeps in mind the journey you agreed to take before coming to this physical world.   It keeps you focused on what you wanted to experience and grow through here on Earth. 

 

How it all comes about fits into the sphere of free will but the inner self has everything to do with what you do here.  Your inner self should be taken care of at least as well as you take care of your physical body.  Your inner self needs nourishment or you are liable to become an unbalanced being which gives you a distinct disadvantage in creating the life you want through the Law of Attraction. 

 

So how do you feed your soul?  Many people feed it through religion and prayer and others through inspiration.  Many feed it through watching a wonderful movie, listening to music, or reading a great book. However you feed it is up to you. How you feed your spirit should feel joyful and refreshed after.  If you don’t, if how you feed your soul leaves you with feelings of doubt or fear, then you need to develop another way. Meditation is a positive way to connect to the inner you, as well as visualization. 

 

This places you in a zone where anything is possible; and, you are then working with your logical mind as well as the spirit mind in order to manifest your wants.  It gives you a chance to step away from the current reality and instead create the reality you truly desire as long as you are passionate about what you focus on.

 

By feeding all aspects of yourself you will find that life will become more balanced, less hectic, and you will feel like you are moving forward instead of standing still.  You will find that fear and doubt leave your life as you connect with your inner you.

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Stop Chasing your Life and Let it Come to you

Stop Chasing your Life and Let it Come to You

Are you working so hard, visualizing, meditating, pushing, pulling, doing everything you can to make your dreams of the life that you want manifest into your life?  Do you figure that by putting more attention toward it ― and giving it your all ― that it will bring it all that much faster?

 

You may want to rethink ‘how’ you’re going about getting the life that you are focusing on.  You see, when you realize that whatever you are focusing on, thinking, and feeling the Universe is matching, you will then continue to be pushing, pulling, hurrying, and rushing to achieve the dream you want ― and that dream will remain in the future. Making rush decisions and not listening to the inner you will steer you in a whole different direction and create more frustration which attracts right back to you through the Law of Attraction.

 

Just how do you go about getting what you want in your life without having to push it into existence?  By letting it come to you.  This doesn’t mean that you sit back and do nothing but it does mean that you have to release all those feelings of rush and deadlines that you have placed on your goal.  Instead of ‘working against the clock’ you can sit back and enjoy life as the Universe takes care of ‘how’ it happens. 

 

When the Universe taps on your shoulder and reminds you that it’s action time, then you can get into gear for whatever action is required.  This process can happen with ease as long as you see it with ease and live in total mental ease right now.  Part of the process of getting what we want is in the “getting there” and if you are enjoying the journey you are already creating more moments to enjoy. 

 

How can you guarantee that your dreams will come?  By living each day expecting they will come and staying in a space of total gratitude.  See all the joy that you can find in your life right now.  Even when you have ‘one of those days’ find the joy within it and focus on that.  If you encounter a negative situation, look for the solution instead of seeing the problem.  Make a mind shift recognizing that you are thankful for each and every situation even if you’re not sure why.  When you can live in that frame of mind and visualize your life with ease your dreams will come.

 

Take hold and begin to focus on everyday life and build a more positive day each day. Find the nugget of gold in each day and you will soon be on your way to the life you want to live.  Your inner you knows what you want to do even if you don’t yet know.  It will be revealed to you when you are ready to hear it, so get ready by living in positive thought.  Be ready to take action but don’t go chasing your life and instead let it all come to you with ease by your own positive thoughts and feelings.

 

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Law of Attraction Radio Show Number 54

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